Have you ever considered that sexuality could be based on zodiac signs? You’re not wrong.
An entire branch devoted to this matter, called ‘sexual astrology,’ deals with the study of zodiac signs and their sexual compatibility according to the horoscope.
Without further delays, read on and discover your best zodiac match flame!
Zodiac Signs And Their Sexuality
As an astrology enthusiast, you’re probably familiar with the 12 zodiac signs and what they’re supposed to represent. But did you know that each sign also has its unique sexual energy?
12. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Aquarius people are known for their free-spirited and rebellious nature, which extends to their sexuality. They are not the type to be constrained by societal norms or expectations, so cornering their needs and desires by giving them or restraining them from sex is not going to work.
Turn-ons: intellectual pursuits with off-the-grid people.
Turn-offs: people looking to get nothing else but commitment.
11. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Sophisticated and intellectual, a Libra is precisely the same in the bedroom. They like to pick the best mates out there – and can deliberate about going all the way with someone if another potential candidate with more sophisticated skills and assets is about to show up.
Turn-ons: well-decorated bedroom, a glamorous night out, and intelligent flirtation.
Turn-offs: cheap behavior and motels.
10. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Pure and honest, a Virgo is all about clean and virgin-like. Like every teenage virgin, the Virgo always has that nasty and kinky thrill inside – available only to the one that extracts it out of it in a very cautious manner.
Turn-ons: poetry, intellectual hitting-on, fresh sheets, and neat style.
Turn-offs: dirty environment, messy sex.
9. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Mental stimulation is what Geminis are all about. They like to talk about getting some – and then talk some more while doing it. Kinky talks or seductive words – this is all you have to know to get their libido on track.
Turn-ons: steamy conversation, talking them through what would come afterward in the bedroom.
Turn-offs: needy, too-emotional companions.
8. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
This zodiac has a reputation for being steady and conservative, but they’re keeping it playful in the bedroom with their carefully picked partner to mate with. Awfully shy, they’re intensive and like to go to the very end. And stamina and time are what they’re not bargaining about in the bedroom.
Turn-ons: planning “sex-nights” in advance, attracted to brains instead muscles.
Turn-offs: weird stuff, spontaneous sex – no! Capricorns are all about planning.
7. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer people are loyal to the bone but can be drama queens occasionally. They would like to stick to a partner they’re devoted and open to – and from there on, there are no limits. Cancers don’t just occasionally fall into someone’s bed – it’s a long road till they get there. But once there, they’re passionate, intensive, and possessive partners.
Turn-ons: date night with loads of food and their special someone.
Turn-offs: straying and hurting their feelings.
6. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Pisces is represented in the zodiac as a pair of two fish swimming around. This connection is present in their love life and sexuality too. If the connection is mutual – the desire for sex and their passion would erupt. If it’s a rebound, a relationship that wouldn’t stick – you will notice it from day 1.
Turn-ons: fantasy play, mutual compassion about a great deal in their lives.
Turn-offs: playing it ‘cool.’
5. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Flirty and sensual, Sagittarius people are all about variety. They are the occasional ‘sleep-arounds’ and don’t have a personal problem with that. The intimacy of their life is their own chest, but their body is their form of art.
Turn-ons: Adventure and excitement.
Turn-offs: Routines.
4. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Leo is a fire sign. They are known for their confidence and ability to take charge in the bedroom, and they often enjoy being the ones in control. As such, they tend to be passionate, sexual beings. Leaders in life and the bedroom can be a positive turn-on for the majority, making Leos one of the best people to sleep with. But they’re considerate – if their partner isn’t treating them like ‘The King’ – their sexual desire vanishes in thin air.
Turn-ons: compliments, endless flattery, putting them on a pedestal.
Turn-offs: bossiness.
3. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
The Taurus sign is one of the most sexual signs in the zodiac, and this is reflected in their approach to sex and relationships. Taurus people are known for being very sensual and passionate, and they often approach sex with a great deal of intensity. They crave physical touch and lift the regular borders in a relationship.
Turn-ons: classy seduction and romance.
Turn-offs: kinky costumes, role-play, or other ‘modern forms’ of sexuality.
2. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Aries people are known for their passionate and fiery nature, extending to their sex life. They enjoy being physically active and often crave new and exciting experiences. If they feel like their sex life is becoming routine, they will quickly become bored and look for excitement elsewhere.
Turn-ons: aggressive and pushy partners.
Turn-offs: scheduled sex.
1. Scorpio (October 22 – November 21)
Notorious for being driven by adventure, a Scorpio partner will do anything in a devoted relationship. They won’t give up until they’ve explored every corner of their partner’s bodies and every inch of their sensuality. They are also very loyal and committed partners, and they expect the same in return, making them the most sexual sign in astrology.
Turn-ons: Understanding and agreement.
Turn-offs: pushy people or people that don’t like trying anything from their palette of desires.
How to Determine Which Zodiac Sign Are You Sexually Compatible With?
When determining sexually compatible signs, it is vital first to understand the basics of astrology and how it works. The zodiac is divided into 12 sections, each ruled by a different planet. Each planet has a unique energy that influences the personalities of those born under its rule.
To discover which zodiac signs are you sexually compatible with, you will need to know your birth date and the corresponding zodiac sign. Then, consult a compatibility chart to see how your sign stacks up against the other 11 signs.
Generally speaking, here’s the basic rule:
- Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) are mainly compatible with other fire signs;
- Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) are most compatible with other earth signs;
- Air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) are primarily compatible with other air signs;
- and Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) are most compatible with other water signs.
Horoscope Sex Matches
There’s one universal rule – every zodiac sign’s best match in bed is their equivalence, i.e., the same sign. However, not everything around us can be perfect.
Here are the best sex partners, according to zodiac signs:
1. Virgo and Leo
Though there are always at least 2 or 3 sexually compatible signs for your zodiac, one of them is always dominant. And Virgos best match sexually with leading Leos. It’s like Beauty and The Beast when you think about it – and it’s a perfect hot fantasy.
2. Scorpio and Pisces
Scorpio’s astrological mate is the always dreamy Pisces. Mutual love and respect can flourish between the two signs, opening doors for fantastical, out-of-this-world sexual pleasures. They can be loyal to the extent of letting one go and knowing they would return to find everything in place.
3. Taurus and Cancer
The sensuality of the Taurus combined with the devotion from Cancer makes one of the top-notch sexually compatible couples in the zodiac. Cancer and Taurus aren’t afraid to show off their feelings when they feel they’re getting the same thing from the other side.
4. Aquarius and Aries
For the Aries people, there’s no limitation to satisfying others, especially their partner. The Aquarius who wants to be free, courageous, and not limited will be perfectly satisfied by the endless knowledge of putting others first, an exclusive Aries virtue. Also, Aries will pounce on Aquarius’s delight and won’t hesitate to take advantage of the chance.
5. Libra and Gemini
Both signs are always curious and tend to hesitate and measure their values and necessities according to others. That’s why the bed would be a marvelous place for the two to meet – feeding each other’s curiosities and desires.
6. Capricorn and Sagittarius
Both stubborn signs would struggle with making the other one see things in their way, but this is an additional turn-on for both sides when it comes to bed and passion. Stubbornness will turn on the heat in the bedroom – and from that point on, both have very distinctive ways of proving their position better than the partner’s suggestion – literally!
How To Work It Out With A Partner Who’s Not A Sex-Match?
Though it might not be ‘written in the stars’ for you and your partner – especially in bed, it isn’t necessarily all there to make things unforgettable.
Here’s how to pass this obstacle and the resentment and frustrations that come along:
- Verbally explain your triggers and understand your partner’s — go through them by eliminating the ones you both can stand from each other’s list. Don’t be too stubborn – go off the grid a bit for an unforgettable sexual experience and harmonious relationship.
- Don’t blame the partner for “failures” in the bedroom – approaching without blame would lose the situation. Tension could burst the bubble and escalate to other unwanted levels.
- Ask a professional – sexual compatibility and problems in the bedroom ARE a big part of a relationship. So, talking to a couple advisors about these things is not shameful and can be of great assistance.
- Shift your perspective – studies prove that sexual desires are unlimited, and the key to satisfaction and reaching orgasms isn’t always the familiar pattern.
- Compromise – to the level of your liking and comfort. Doing something for your partner is marvelous and can reach a climax on a sexual and emotional level. But don’t over-push yourself to the point your partner becomes selfish.
- Find a third option – when sides fight over something and offer solutions neither side wants to agree upon – the answer always lies in a third option. It might be hard to find it yourself, but a slight push from a third party (a relationship advisor) can do the trick.
Benefits of Zodiac Sexual Compatibility
Having similar sexual needs/ desires and ‘clicking’ in the bedroom by looking at each other can help sort things out and prosper on a long-term level.
- Orgasms can increase your focus, relax you and make you sleep better – and with a sexually compatible partner, you’ll have no problems getting there.
- Sexually compatible partners fight less – since the stress is gone from having a blast in the bedroom, small things can be easily forgotten.
- Look forward to another bedroom date – sex is a pleasure for both you and your partner, and no one has to be more into sex than the other.
- The sexual attraction is beyond the bedroom – loving sex and your partner doesn’t necessarily need to be in the bedroom. You’re both free and curious since you both love the actual act and not focus on the climax only.
Tips for Keeping the Spark Alive in a Long Term Sexual Relationship
You can’t seem to enjoy eating the same thing for breakfast each other day.
But when it comes to relationships, we somehow always strive towards monogamy.
Thus, here’s how to avoid boredom and keep the spark alive while keeping the interest and focus between you and your partner:
- Avoid distractions – young, flirtatious, and fresh is always more interesting. But avoid these things to prevent starting a war within yourself first.
- Talk it out – inform your partner about your newly developed sexual desires and discomforts or an emotional state you’re triggered by some of their actions.
- Go on dates – you might be surprised by the person you’re going on a date with, though it’s the partner you’re married to. People change every day, and the biggest mistake partners make is refusing to grow together and understand each other’s position and place at the time.
- Play around with different stuff – visual pornographic stimulations, sex toys, and seductive lingerie leaves no one indifferent.
- Go wild! – from sex in public to filming porn, don’t hesitate to be free-minded when exploring your sexuality with your long-term partner. They’ve been there till this day, and they probably will stick around for good, so explore your imagination.
Wrapping Up
So, stars can determine what goes down in your bed after all? No wonder stars and planets are connected with the whole ‘nighty night’ and ‘sweet dreams.’ And they can add sweeteners for unforgettable sex too!
Being wise and spiritual and finding the right people to stand beside you doesn’t always come with words necessarily. Discovering which zodiac sign are you sexually compatible with can solve many problems. Even if you’re already with a partner that’s not sexually compatible with, understanding and mutual agreements can make your relationship and sex life flourish.
FAQ
What zodiac signs have the worst sexual compatibility?
Here’s a ‘zodiac pattern’ of signs that shouldn’t get involved together to avoid problems and tensions in the love life and the bedroom:
- Virgos and Sagittarius
- Aries and Pisces
- Taurus and Leo
- Aquarius and Cancer
- Scorpio and Gemini
- Capricorn and Libra
